By the time
a child reaches the preschool age of three to five, they have
changed in so many ways. Many children are ready to expand their
world outside of home and interact more with peers, teachers and
other parents.
Physically,
preschoolers are capable of many tasks. Emotionally, many can
control their anger and uncomfortable emotions much better. Socially,
they are curious about other children. The element of other people
to play with adds fun, creativity, and learning (and sometimes
needed conflict resolution) with other children.
The cognitive
development of preschoolers puts them squarely in the magical/fantasy
element of brain development. Their whole world is constructed
of "make-believe" which further enhances play with others.
They also have enough brain power and self control to understand
a few safety limits and to listen to adults a wee bit more than
toddlers.
Many parents
wonder what type of education is best for this age. The answer
really depends on the child. Factors that affect this are: gender,
temperament, personality, and learning style more than age alone.
Gender
Differences
In terms of
gender, preschool boys are still quite active and find it hard
to sit, concentrate and participate in circle time. They tend
to fidget more when compelled to listen to music, storybook reading
or teachers talking. Programs to look for should be active and
fun with a high physical component. Preschools with lots of circle
time and quiet play should not be the first choice. Girls tend
to love role-playing with toys and make believe play and often
can sit longer to listen to stories.